Last month, I had one of the most intense months of my life.
My father was admitted to the hospital for a routine procedure where they insert “stents” to help improve circulation from major arteries to the heart. Pops had 80% blockage in his left femur artery.
What should have been a quick procedure–in and out of the hospital within one day–turned into a full-fledged nightmare. A few days later, on Saturday night, my father began having a seizure-like shaking episode, so intense that his wedding band flew off. He called out for my mother and aunt to come help him. They immediately called 911, and Pops was admitted to the ER.
My father asked my mother to call “all his children,” as he didn’t know if he would make it. Quickly the entire Wallace family flocked to his bedside. Since Pops complained of significant chest pains, we were worried that he had experienced a heart attack. The doctors were able to stabilize him, yet couldn’t determine what had happened.
I stayed by his bedside overnight on Sunday. I tried my hardest to keep a tough and strong appearance to benefit my mother, but I was truly falling apart internally. No one ever wants to see their father in such a helpless and vulnerable position.
I am not a super religious person…but I do believe that in times of tragedy, the power of prayer can prove to be invaluable. My mother had gone home for the night so I was the last Wallace there. While getting some air out in the waiting room, I was approached by an older woman. Since I was crying, she sat next to me and simply held my hand. She didn’t say anything or ask any questions. She just sat there. Before she left, she handed me a small white bible and told me to keep my head up. “God’s plans are already working, and however they pan out, you are strong enough to handle it,” she said.
That night I cried, prayed and envisioned my father pulling through. Well,while it took weeks for my father to get back on his feet, Pops made it. The doctors determined that the stent procedure had led to a blood infection, which easily could have killed him had he not gone in immediately.
A week later, while eating my favorite–Chinese–for dinner, I opened my fortune cookie to find an interesting sentiment.
I like to think it was the universe’s way of acknowledging that yes, I had witnessed a miracle and yes, higher powers can work wonders.